5 Moral Dilemmas Every Married Man Faces
***This list was written by a GUY!! Therefore the explanations will make more sense. :) ***
#1.) Getting together with an ex: There's no reason your friendship with an ex should have to end now that you're married.
More importantly, don't lie to your girl about hanging out with your ex. That will only make things worse. Instead, explain to your wife that you chose HER, and she's the only woman you want to be with. If you're being honest, she should be cool with it.
#2.) Flirting: In and of itself, flirting is mostly harmless. MOSTLY. Just make sure it doesn't lead to anything shady. And try to keep in mind that if you're going to flirt a little, your wife can too.
#3.) Checking out other women: You got married, not castrated. You're free to LOOK at other women all you like. But you have to do it correctly. That means no creepy leers, and no doing it blatantly in front of your wife. That's just disrespectful.
#4.) Telling your wife a friend is cheating: No man wants to violate Guy Code, especially when it could screw over a friend. But if your wife hears the news from anyone but you, she's going to know you were keeping secrets. So what do you do?
Honestly, you probably should fill your lady in. Let her know that your friend is cheating, not you. She'll appreciate you brought it up. And hopefully, she'll interpret it as proof that you're not THAT GUY.
#5.) Going to strip clubs: This is a tough one. The only purpose of going to a strip club is to ogle T-and-A, and maybe get a private dance. I guarantee the wife will not appreciate that, especially since half the money you'll be spending is hers.
Enjoy and feel free to pass this to your friends.
xo
Melissa
